One of my grandmothers was complaining about the 'woke agenda'.
This isn't an uncommon viewpoint for anyone, let alone an elderly individual. However, this viewpoint doesn't match her life, both work and personal.
(Being 'woke' refers to: issues of social justice; having a sense of what's right; and changing the world to reflect this fair society.)
Different Issues, Same Agenda
Yes, the precise issues might be different between my grandma's progressive thoughts and those of the present day.
But the underlining drive and attitude? Wanting social justice doesn't end just because you've worked on what applies to you most. You can't dismiss one arm of social justice just because it doesn't relate to your life personally.
Social justice is wanting a fair society. But it's not a fair society if you only let certain issues reach fairness whilst denying others the same platform.
A Progressive Work Life
Let's look at my grandmother's work life.
Before retirement, she spent most of her life working in social care. This meant she thought the state not only had the right to intervene in someone's life if it was of poor quality (health, happiness, safety, cleanliness etc), but that this service should be free.
Alongside this, she would protest over issues of women's rights. In particular, she was focused on equal treatment, respect and promotion in the work place. She thought women were just as capable as men so their opportunities for advancement (and their interactions with colleagues/bosses) should be the same as men.
These are both liberal, progressive policies. Both are clearly driven by a sense of social justice, a sense of what is right, a desire for a fair society.
A Progressive Personal Life
Let's look at my grandmother's personal life.
Her unmarried, romantic life partner was an immigrant. So, she clearly accepts an immigrant's right to live and work in her native country.
Also, she thought going against social norms such as marriage was an acceptable thing to do. (In this particular instance, living with a man she was neither married to nor ever would marry). 'Ruining her reputation' didn't matter: love did.
These are liberal, progressive attitudes. Both clearly originate from a sense of social justice, a sense of what is right, a want for a fair society.
A Progressive Life in Every Aspect
All four of these are liberal, progressive policies and attitudes, born of social justice.
She knew what she thought was right: not only did she live by her ideals but she went out of her way to change the world to be a better, fairer place. She did this at work and at home.
Clearly, my grandmother is a progressive person with progressive policies. So how does she not realise her whole life has been the 'woke agenda'?
This sentiment can apply to many elderly progressives. This isn't to say they're bad people. Rather, it's just an honest look at the contradiction between what they say now and how they've lived in the past.